Hello marvelous mummies and mommies!
I hope you are all doing well. I have been reading the posts and I need some advice about breastfeeding.
So far, I have been waking my anonykid to feed him every three hours (if he didn’t wake up by himself and want to feed). He is gaining weight (I can see him getting a little chubbier each day) and my milk supply is good, so waking him to feed has been good in that sense. I read in some books and on the internet that feeding this often helps to ensure a good milk supply. That’s why I have been doing it.
But now, I’m starting to think that I am disrupting his sleep too much — I pretty much always have to wake him at night to feed him and often during the day too. Then, after I wake him to feed, sometimes he can’t fall asleep again and so he stays awake too long and gets overtired. Also, it seems he is just not hungry that often! He sometimes has a snack for only five minutes or so and then I can hardly wake him again (this happens most often at night). If I persist, I CAN wake him and get him to eat another five minutes but I’m starting to feel like I am forcing him to wake/eat when he just doesn’t want/need to. He is two weeks old now.
What I think is . . . I think I want to stop feeding him by this schedule and let him set his own schedule. On the other hand, I don’t want to do this if it would have a negative effect on my milk supply, or on him.
I want to know, if you have time to share, what you did with your baby/babies, regarding waking them to feed. I would really appreciate hearing about your experiences.
Thank you!!!! We each of you a hug and a kiss!
Anonymom